During the winter months, much like bears of the North, S and I tend to hibernate. Whether knowingly, or unknowingly, most couples tend to practice some form of hibernation when summer is farther away than we’d like to admit (because, screw Jack Frost). Some fall completely off everyone’s radar, and others go from one-hundred to a solid twenty-five on the social scale. Yesterday, S and I left the comfort of our condo, and had lunch with two friends – former roommates from the Indiana U dorm days. The weather was surprisingly warm and welcoming for a February day in Indianapolis, and we had a great time catching up and laughing at their one-and-a-half-year-old. A habitual and frequent goal of ours is to do nothing more than stay home and relax as soon as we leave work on Fridays. Usually we’ve planned too much or we’re visiting family, so taking full advantage of not having any commitments in our queue, and keeping hard earned coins in our pockets – and not on the countertops of downtown Indianapolis bars – is pretty great. When I think about it, our hibernation period is probably due to preparation for the summer. Summer is when we stay pretty social; having people over, and going to our favorite spots around town. Being completely real, it seems as though our motivation levels match the season. Winter is dark, cold, and lazy… So thankfully, we both have the option of working out at our workplaces.
LOL! Aaron and I are constantly teased by friends as being the ” Hibernating Honeys” because we do the same when it’s cold outside. I’m glad to know we aren’t the only couple to do so! I understand your reasoning entirely, my blogging buddy! Much love and naked hugs! 😉
P,S. I’m sending to you an email tonight. I have a couple of questions for you. Thanks! 🙂
Jamalm.miller@gmail.com
Thanks, my gay and blogging buddy! 🙂
Haha! Hibernating Honeys lol, that’s awesome 🙂 I’ll look forward to your email.
It’s great to be in a relationship where both partners are in sync with their extroverted/introverted cycles. Otherwise havoc and stress due to differing cycles could strain the relationship.
Thanks for the comment! We stay pretty well synced, so I definitely makes things easier 🙂
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