Author: Jamal Miller

Gays in the Life began years ago as a project to help sharpen my writing chops. With each post and each year that passed by, the blog began to morph into something quite different and traveled a variety of creative avenues. Gays in the Life is a lifestyle blog discussing topics in marriage, relationships, life as a young professional, and adventures in living a healthier lifestyle. Enjoy! And thanks for reading, *J

by Jamal Miller November 22, 2014 4

Workout for What?

When one is single, working out and staying in shape is important for the wrong reasons. Most will say thatContinue Reading

by Jamal Miller November 13, 2014 3

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Cruised

The shower area of the gym is steamy, warm, and a most welcome feeling with the chill of winter’s approachContinue Reading

by Jamal Miller November 5, 2014 3

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STRAIGHT

Forbidden fruit comes in the form of the heterosexual male. During my time in the closet – from eighth gradeContinue Reading

by Jamal Miller October 28, 2014 0

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Blue balls and the Brain

Sexual appetites are something that need to be fed in order to keep a relationship flowing. People can get alongContinue Reading

by Jamal Miller October 23, 2014 4

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Real Compared to What

There were no storybook-happy-endings looping in my head when it came to S and I living together. What I enjoyContinue Reading

by Jamal Miller October 15, 2014 6

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Move-in Day

The day had finally come for our time in different zip codes to end. We talked about moving in togetherContinue Reading

by Jamal Miller October 7, 2014 2

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Dark Clouds Interlude

Booze stripped our judgment and wisdom while we attempted to get our respective points across to one another. We bothContinue Reading

by Jamal Miller October 1, 2014 0

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These Sexhiled Walls

It’s my birthday weekend and S has come to Bloomington for the occasion. After dinner at La Charreada – aContinue Reading

by Jamal Miller September 23, 2014 2

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Dirty Distance

Actions speak louder than words. I found this to be the case when it came to my experience with aContinue Reading

by Jamal Miller September 10, 2014 3

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Sparks

It’s the wedding day of one of my best college friends, and I am leaving her reception early. The onlyContinue Reading